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Three Recipes to a Healthy Relationship

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Written by Iskandar Bakrie/Firmansyah

Friday, 16 July 2010

The very first thing is to ask yourself, what is a serious relationship means to you. You have to really understand what you really wish from others and what was to be given to them. So, you can see clearly from the beginning if you want to build a serious relationship with a partner.

1. Communication

Once you already committed into a serious relationship, you must always remember what unites you. Like, what makes you attracted to each other  both physically and emotional. What is the most preferred of your partner? This will prevent you to be selfless to your partner.

Everyone has different opinions. So, do not expect  that other people will see things from a same viewpoint. However, it is also important to have the same view in the relationship, if you do not want to get involved in arguments with your partner. Consider things like how often should you and your partner met. If there are things that are important to you and not for the partner, it's worth to consider your partner's opinion.

2. Patience

Patience is the key element of a relationship. Do not rush angry if your partner suddenly cool when you just want to have fun with him. Just relax, take a deep breath and think about the reasons. Assuming and immediately draw a conclusion is unhealthy step. It shows that you do not provide flexibility for the partner to be just the way he is as well as you automatically have bad thinking on him.

Give him a time and let him know that you will always be there when he wanted to talk. However the relationship situations, patience is a gold, except if the couple did not want to discuss the problem, which means you need to consult or end the relationship.

3. Honesty

Honesty above all else. Everyone should know that they can trust their partner because it can build trust and comfort between them.

They know that their partner will always be honest, whatever it is. No human is perfect, everyone must have done something wrong. Well, if you already know about it, don't let yourself do the thing you know it's wrong.

If you or your partner deliberately or openly make mistakes, that means you're not giving enough attention to each other. It's not healthy for a relationship. Healthy is to realize that a mistake is a mistake.

You and your partner should be aware that what he was doing wrong and he should feel sympathy for what has been done. If you and your partner already understands this, it's easy for both of you to figure out how to express honesty.


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